Bubba caught his boyfriend with another guy yesterday... I'm not sure how to help him get through this.  I've never caught any SO with anyone else, so this is one experience I'm at a loss with.  He decided to tell his BF's parents about them so that they knew he wasn't just being rude when he left abruptly the other day.

I just found out, like seriously just now, that his BF ended things and said he was getting a new roommate for this fall when they start school.  I know BF is upset but he couldn't hide everything forever.  He was going to have to tell his parents and he's going to have to grow up and stop screwing around when he's with someone.

My brother is heartbroken.  He doesn't know how to handle this.  I don't know how to help.  I'm scared for him.  He keeps saying he just wants to be normal.  What is normal?  Being attracted to the opposite sex?  I don't find that normal.  I'm not just attracted to men.  But I don't consider myself all that normal either.  He thinks people wouldn't judge him if he were "normal".  How wrong he is.  People judge to judge.  I don't know how to get that through to him.  I don't know how to help him.

I don't want him to do something stupid because his first real relationship didn't work out.  They hardly ever do.  How do I help him?  I need a lot of help with this...